We Belong to Each Other

Sandhills, NE Windmill As I drove across Nebraska last weekend, I delighted in the green fields with their borders of Black-Eyed Susans, bright yellow with black centers, turned toward the sun. Working windmills litter the prairies, where as a child I competed mightily against my two siblings in the “spot the windmills” game, created by my parents to keep us focused on something other than squabbling with one another on family trips.

Retraining mode kicked in – it is customary to wave at each car headed the opposite direction by raising at least an index finger in greeting – something that isn’t rote to me anymore, a practice that lets others know they’re not alone in this remote stretch of land leading to the Sand Hills.

Mother Teresa said, “We’ve forgotten we belong to each other.” Sometimes that’s how it feels in America today, but not during this drive where acknowledging that you’re seen, you’re not alone, is commonplace.

Yet, folks I’ve talked with out in the heartland are also deeply influenced by what I’ve come to think of as our national Great Divide. From family dinner tables to local bars, statehouses to the halls of Congress, it seems we don’t agree on much anymore. Perhaps we’ve forgotten that we belong to each other here in this grand experiment of democracy, of United States.

Children in the heartland returned to school over the last couple of weeks and Congress left for its summer recess without a budget deal. The chicken-playing between the President and Congress – sequestration – with across the board cuts, has already impacted our vulnerable elderly (Meals on Wheels) and our children (Head Start) and much more.

The next round of sequestration cuts will include reductions for public housing assistance, money for schools with low-income students, environmental protection programs, food inspection and scientific research.

A great reminder that we belong to each other is the fact that about one third of states’ budgets come from federal funds (check out the chart* below).

Meanwhile, in my little hometown there’s an advertisement for a managerial job opening – at McDonalds – which pays $9.15 an hour.

Alabama

39.84%

Alaska

26.38%

Arizona

40.90%

Arkansas

30.44%

California

36.67%

Colorado

27.14%

Connecticut

9.53%

Delaware

19.87%

Florida

36.20%

Georgia

28.15%

Hawaii

16.96%

Idaho

39.00%

Illinois

19.35%

Indiana

35.25%

Iowa

34.06%

Kansas

26.41%

Kentucky

33.87%

Louisiana

36.24%

Maine

32.68%

Maryland

26.36%

Massachusetts

21.53%

Michigan

40.20%

Minnesota

27.57%

Mississippi

53.47%

Missouri

32.27%

Montana

36.00%

Nebraska

30.25%

Nevada

29.58%

New Hampshire

32.26%

New Jersey

24.85%

New Mexico

37.24%

New York

30.19%

North Carolina

33.56%

North Dakota

31.98%

Ohio

22.70%

Oklahoma

39.46%

Oregon

24.76%

Pennsylvania

37.20%

Rhode Island

34.49%

South Carolina

42.57%

South Dakota

40.24%

Tennessee

42.23%

Texas

33.06%

Utah

27.50%

Vermont

35.90%

Virginia

21.24%

Washington

20.81%

West Virginia

19.55%

Wisconsin

25.58%

Wyoming

25.24%

Average

31.20%

Congressional   Research Service and NASBO.

*See Pew Charitable Trusts, Elaine S. Povich’s States Brace for New Sequester Cuts;  August 20, 2013 at http://www.pewstates.org/projects/stateline . “ Stateline is a nonpartisan, nonprofit news service of the Pew Charitable Trusts that provides daily reporting and analysis on trends in state policy.”

Women’s Work: Bright Spots for Main Street Women This Week

This week, the Oscars treated us to Seth McFarlene singing “We Saw Your Boobs” and the sequester cuts go into effect that will negatively impact women. But there were bright spots…

VAWA PASSES AND MOVES TO PRES OBAMA’S DESK VAWA

The VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN ACT was finally reauthorized. The U.S. House of Representatives voted yesterday and passed the bipartisan Senate version, which included key protections for campus rape, Native and immigrant women, and LGBTQ women.  Representative Gwen Moore, Democrat of Wisconsin and a victim of domestic and sexual violence herself, spoke passionately about the need to pass the Senate’s bill.

I pray that this body will do as the Senate has done and come together as one to protect all women from violence. As I think about the L.G.B.T. victims who are not here, the native women who are not here, the immigrants who aren’t in this bill, I would say, as Sojourner Truth would say, ‘Ain’t they women?’ ”

Every Democratic and 87 Republicans voted for the Senate bill; 138 GOP members voting against it.  Among the nay votes was House Majority Leader Eric Cantor (R-Va.).  The House’s action means that VAWA will be reauthorized for another five years, with $659 million being provided for various programs targeting domestic violence. How has the VAWA made a difference?

In a 24-hour period in the U.S., local domestic violence programs provided emergency shelter, transitional housing, supportive counseling, advocacy or other services to more than 67,000 women, children and men. Since 1994 when VAWA went into effect, there’s been a 34% reduction in women killing their batterers because they felt they had no choice, that their survival was at stake.  Learn more at http://4vawa.org/ .

WOMEN WHO MAKE AMERICA EDUCATES MAKERS thCAV2YCPM

MAKERS:  Women Who Make America, the documentary on 50 years of feminism in America debuted on PBS, causing a stir and lots of healthy conversations across the nation. If you missed it, check PBS.org or http://www.makers.com/ . It is a must see!

And it’s up to you to seize the work that lays before us — like claiming an equal voice in our political system, or demanding equal pay for equal work, or taking leadership roles in big business. You are among the mighty group of Makers just ahead who can help make new history.” Marlo Thomas

Rising Up for International Women's Day MARCH 8TH IS INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY

INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY celebrations have begun! The official date is March 8th but many events are set for today.

If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman.” Margaret Thatcher

To find events in your area: http://internationalwomensday.com/ I’m excited to be joining National NOW President Terry O’Neill here in St. Louis on Sunday for a celebration. On Monday, O’Neill will deliver a lecture at Washington University’s Law School entitled “Rhetoric vs. Reality: The Latest Stealth Tactics in the War on Women.” Can’t wait!

WHEN WOMEN ARE HEARD, THEY CHANGE THE WORLD:  DO YOU HAVE TIME TO VOLUNTEER?

Want to do something tangible? World Pulse is looking for volunteers! World Pulse has grown from a Portland, OR kitchen table to a global network, partnering with over 40 top international organizations empowering women. World Pulse is seeking volunteers for the World Pulse turns up the volume on women's voices upcoming Voices of Our Future Application and Digital Action Campaign .

When women’s voices are equally heard and supported in the media, it results in increased family and child wellbeing, more investment in education and health care, better economic growth and job creation, as well as proper transparency and accountability. It accelerates social healing after trauma, as well as information sharing and problem-solving. Most importantly, it strengthens community networks, environmental stewardship, and the democratic process, as well as arts, culture, and creativity. ”

Access at https://worldpulse.com/about/opportunities and click on Online Listener Volunteer to learn more. Deadline for applications is March 19, 2013.

WOMEN’S RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS

Remember Hillary Clinton’s Women’s Rights Are Human Rights speech in Beijing in 1995?

As long as discrimination and inequities remain so commonplace around the  world – as long as girls and women are valued less, fed less, fed last,  overworked, underpaid, not schooled and subjected to violence in and out  of their homes – the potential of the human family to create a peaceful,  prosperous world will not be realized.”

May this International Women’s Day find you safe, well, celebrating how far we’ve come and ready to commit to doing just one thing to further strengthen our human family!

Down on Main Street: U.S. Women Poorer And Getting Ready For More With Sequestration

If you’re like me, you remember at least one time during childhood when you squabbled with some other kid. An adult stepped in and said, “Work it Out.”

Main Street As we head closer to the March 1 sequestration, that ominous term now part of American lexicon, DC squabbling and fingerpointing continues. I’m longing for Main Street to rise up and tell those governing us to work it out — right now. Instead of using energy to find solutions, those governing us seem more focused on who’s fault it is that we’re in this situation. My vow of tolerance is failing, though I’m listening to all ‘sides’ and wondering, where is the adult to step in?

We’re innudated with information about how these automatic cuts will impact us in a myriad of ways. Likley thousands of teachers will lose their jobs. Our food supply will become less safe as food inspections are reduced. Children will go without vaccinations. Struggling parents won’t be able to afford child care. Millions of seniors will go without meals. (For more, see the White House sequester cuts estimates of impact for your state at http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/special/politics/sequestration-state-impact/?tid=ts_carousel .)

When sequester cuts hit, one thing is clear: men will have it bad but ordinary women (& children) will have it worse.

U.S. Women Poorer Already

According to the U.S. Census Bureau data on poverty, 59% of poor adults are women . Employed U.S. women are 38% more likely to be poor than employed men — at every level of educational attainment. Single Moms are 87% more likely to be poor than single fathers.

Fifty-percent (50%) of all jobs in the U.S. pay less than $34,000 a year.

The U.S. began its official poverty measurement in the 1960’s. Every year, adult women have been shown to have a higher poverty rate than adult men. Poverty is measured based on gross income and if poverty were measured based on income net of child care expenditures, many more women (and men) would be counted as poor. Between 2010 and 2011, the gender gender equality symbols gap increased significantly.

Gender poverty gap, 2010: Women 29% more likely to be poor than men.

Gender poverty gap, 2011: Women 34% more likely to be poor than men.

Sequester cuts to male dominated fields, like military and law enforcement, means Main Street will rely more on women’s incomes for family survival. With women in America earning about 23% less than equally qualified men, relying on women’s lesser incomes doesn’t bode well for families.

Making Your Voice Heard

US Congress If we want “work it out” action, it is time for those of us down on Main Street to use our voices. This can feel scary.  We watched Occupy Wallstreet movement participants pepper sprayed, beaten and herded by black-booted, military-equipped police around the nation. Democratic exercise of diverse perspectives, it seems, is now discouraged in America.

Taking to the streets isn’t the only way to be heard.

Contacting Congress gives you telephone numbers and usually email address for your elected officials: http://www.contactingthecongress.org/

You can call your Representatives for free using http://calloncongress.sunlightfoundation.com/

If you have a story you’d like to tell about the response you got when you used your voice, I’d be thrilled to post your story that could inspire or offer lessons learned to others on Main Street. Want to share ways that the economic downturn has already impacted you and your family? Those stories welcome too. Email me at jone@incourageleading.com

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