Main Street Transformation & Immigration Tales

Main Street l There’s no question that Main Street is rapidly transforming. In 2000, immigrants made up 11.1% of the total U.S. population. By 2050, one in five people in the U.S. will have been born outside the country, up from 1 in 8 in 2005.

It is predicted that in 2060, ‘White/Non-Hispanics’ will be 43% of the U.S. population.

Jennifer (NE):  My family is Main Street.

“We’re diverse. My husband was born in Guatemala, speaks Spanish, and is now a U.S. citizen. We have 2 girls and 5 boys — we live in the heart of this country. We are Main Street.”

Jennifer, one of the Mainstreet Women I interviewed for the book I’m writing, is spot on. Her family embodies U.S. Main Street transformation. Her children will be in the American majority in their adulthood.

Jennifer’s Main Street family is the modern U.S. immigration system tale too. She married Juan Carlos in 1995 and 10 years later, he gained U.S. citizen.

Immigration System Change in the Wind (Again)

The Mainstreet Women I interviewed, like Jennifer, experienced the immigration system by following existing laws and processes – something that gets less airtime — and found it to be a dehumanizing experience.

Polls show that the majority of Americans want immigration reform, including ways for people already in the country to move toward citizenship. Today, 11 million people live within our nation’s borders without legal documentation or authorization. Young undocumented immigrants 2012

Immigration discussion and action often focused on “illegal” immigrants:  40% of immigrants to the U.S. entered on temporary visas (students, tourists, business, agriculture) and then stayed on without authorization,  another 40% crossed the U.S.-Mexico border.

This week, change is in the wind as a bipartisan group of Senators announced their blueprint for immigration system reform, and the President used his bully pulpit to discuss immigration too. Addressing the undocumented immigrants already in the U.S. is understandably a key issue.

I talked with Jennifer this morning to get her take on the immigration system news. She can laugh now about the “horrific experience,” the uncertainty, the waiting, the payment after payment at each stage of the process, and the “cold and intimidating” treatment over the 10 year period it took for her husband to obtain U.S. citizenship. She has mixed feelings, however, about what she’s heard this week.

I share the mixed feelings but of one thing I’m certain:  lifting out Main Street voices is critical as we consider, and weigh in about, our leaders’ proposals for changing our immigration system.

Cyndi (NE):  We were nothing, just a paper in a box.

“My husband is Canadian and it was so hard, financially hard, and the process was so hard to get his legal status. In my husband’s situation and getting his immigration status, it all seemed to be about money – every form also required more money to be paid, no one we dealt with seemed to care what we were going through.

When we went through the process, we drove to Omaha three hours away and walked into a building with heavy security, had our bags checked, and then were told ‘your application goes in this box.’ Then we sat and waited, and waited, and waited. Inbox

We chatted with the security guard. Others who came after us got called in. Then, an official came out and said we were late for our appointment so go home and start all over. We were an hour early! He said ‘go home and reapply.’

I said I am not going home – get someone else out here. The guard came over and vouched for us, how we’d been waiting so long. We were nothing, just a paper in a box.”

Raina (OH):  Loss of Professional Identity

“I used to love to work and when I came to the U.S. that loss of professional identity was very hard. I can’t work so I feel stifled since I’m married and came here on a dependent’s visa. I find there’s a whole subculture of women who worked before and are talented but can’t work in the U.S.  It is very frustrating and makes it hard to transition.”

Jennifer: 10 Years, Horrific Experience

U.S. Citizenship & Naturalization Ceremony “There we were, Juan Carlos, my parents who served as his sponsors, and our son. We entered the immigration office and found the shades over bank teller-like windows drawn. No one was there, no one welcomed us. We had to slip our paperwork under the window and a hand pulled in the paper — no one said anything, it was a little mouse was back there. Then we sat with everyone else in classroom desks, waiting to be interviewed. In the room, dead silence. It was such an awful experience.”

The day Jennifer will never forget, Juan Carlos’ citizenship ceremony, she and her family were greeted by smiling immigration officials waiting to give her kids cookies, “after 10 years and everything we’d been through, now they’re giving us cookies?”

Canada v. U.S. Immigration Canada Flag

We have a lot in common with Canada – a fairly high standard of living, rule of law, relative safety.  To determine whom it should let in to live and work, Canada uses a point system. You don’t even need a job or employer, just skills. Applicants are awarded points for proficiency in education, languages and job experience.

A stark difference, in Canada almost two-thirds of permanent visas last year were given for economic needs – Canada’s economic needs. The country brings in foreigners to fill labor holes. Only 22% of its immigration was for family reasons: reuniting mothers with children, brothers with sisters, grandparents with grandchildren.

In the U.S., the opposite is true. Only 13% of green cards last year were granted out for economic reasons, while two-thirds were for family reunions.

What do YOU Want to See in Immigration Reform?

There’s no doubt that as Main Street transformation occurs, our immigration system must be dramatically transformed too. As Senator Diane Feinstein has been saying about gun violence, it will take Main Street Rising to move Congress toward actions we want to see taken.

I’d love to hear your thoughts: What would the imperfect but infinitely better immigration system for America look like?

Want to test your U.S. Immigration IQ? The PBS Newshour gives us 13 great questions: http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/newamericans/quiz.html

Mainstreet Women: You Keep My Hope Alive

I love Alicia’s response to “what’s one thing you’re really proud of and wish every girl could experience too?” What I wish for all girls is that they give birth to something new. Whether it is a child, a book, or a business, that’s what we’re here to do. (Alicia, CA)

The book I’m writing on real women, Mainstreet Women, is giving birth. It is my way of sharing what women across the nation care about, are proud of, stand for, want political leaders to know, and wish for our country. This blog is a part of the labor (of love) to keep connected while I work toward honoring Mainstreet Women’s voices, grit and glory, to the best of my ability.

A STAND

Hearing and sharing Mainstreet Women’s voices with the world is also taking a stand. As our nation’s leaders bicker, wars rage, poverty grows, inequities widen, and with the Sandy Hook tragedy fresh — I look to women to make change happen — to keep my hope alive.

And, putting Mainstreet Women’s voices out in the world is a call to action. No matter what side of the political spectrum you lean, my hope is that these voices change mindsets and catalyze actions – both on personal and the public levels.

Mainstreet Women have made me realize that I need to change too. I am part of the too-quiet majority of women in America who possess almost all the  consumer muscle, and over half the citizen muscle, in our nation. We hold the overwhelming power to change our country. When we choose to exercise those muscles, anything is possible.

A WISH, FAVOR

Over the holidays, I’ll be taking time off to reflect and write (and sip some eggnog with family and friends too). Since you’ll likely be with loved ones, I have a favor to ask.

Would you be willing to ask others to share their answer to: What’s one thing you’re really proud of and wish every girl in America could experience too?

I’d love to add more voices (58 and counting) to this especially positive and inspiring part of the book. I’m convinced that reflecting on, talking about, and shouting out what we’re proud of and wish our children could experience too will help keep our hope, and theirs, alive. It could birth change too.

A GIFT

As a small thank-you gift to the first 20 people share their answer , I’ll send them 2 copies of the book Guilty Pleasures: Indulgences, Addictions and Obsessions that the Chicago Tribune called: “ A one-way ticket to a world of brazen, shameless joy .”

Guilty Pleasures was written by eight Mainstreet Women in St. Louis, these “otherwise good girls” confess to stacks of embarrassing habits and closets full of unmentionable weaknesses: Scheduling Naps, The Ideal Lovers: Shoes, Surrendering to (Cinnamon Roll) Desire, Self-Help Books… Believe me, it is pure fun!

HERE’S WHAT TO DO

Ask your mother, sister, daughter, daughter-in-law, friend over the age of 18, or like-minded Mainstreet man, to login to this blog post… Click on this link and enter the required information or simply scroll to the bottom of this post. (Please, only U.S. mailing addresses.) I will NOT share anyone’s information, believe me, I hate “junk” mail and random acts of sales too.

I’ll announce the 20 gift “winners” (first names only, just like I do when I quote you) on January 4, 2013 .

Option: Willing to share responses but not ready to read the book? That’s fine! I’ll be grateful no matter how the added content for the Mainstreet Women book is gifted to me. Feel free to simply post to our US Mainstreet Women’s Facebook page or in the comment box below.

Option: If you want to claim the books yourself for getting people to answer the question, simply fill out the form and tell me who posted because you asked them too. I’ll send you the books if you’re one of the first 20!

PEACE IN 2013

Mainstreet Women interviewees, and other like-minded souls, you have already given me so much this year since I began this work in October. My heartfelt t hank you, thank you, thank you! I couldn’t bear the lonely (writing) labor pains without you.

Much joy and best wishes go out to you and yours throughout the winter holidays. Continued prayers and thoughts go to the families in Sandy Hook, CT.

May the New Year be a healthier, happier year on Main Street, across our nation and the globe.

All my best, Jone

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