MLK Day Challenge: Speaking Out & Standing Up for Human Progress

Human progress is neither automatic nor inevitable… Every step toward the goal of justice requires sacrifice, suffering, and struggle; the tireless exertions and passionate concern of dedicated individuals.” Martin Luther King, Jr.

Ordinary women on Main Streets across America are a lot like MLK. They have gone to extraordinary lengths to advance human progress, sometimes on a very public stage, sometimes in private meetings; often with success, sometimes dusting themselves off to speak another day. Rosa Parks

Mainstreet Women I interviewed have spoken out and stood up for justice in innummerable ways:

  • Beth (MS) led efforts to get a Foster Parents Bill of Rights passed into law
  • Diane (NM) threw herself at barricades, protesting the Vietnam War and advocating for civil rights
  • Heidi (MT) persistently called her Governor’s Office until a townhall meeting happened to stop a mining company from setting up operations near Yellowstone National Park
  • Donna (TX) stood up for staff in a law firm, sometimes backing lawyers down the hall with two fingers on their chests
  • Elizabeth (NC) advocates for her daughter with a learning disability, facing education system challenges and “experts”
  • Cyndi (NE) and Cindy (NJ) both stood up for their young children, leaving violently abusive husbands so that their children could have better lives
  • KC (WA) spoke out about embezzlement in an organization
  • Mary (MD) and Mary (NV) both advocate for vulnerable people, getting policies passed and giving voice to the voiceless
  • Kris (NH) led get out the vote efforts and advocates for her own son with a learning challenge
  • Jennifer (NE) met with the Governor to advocate against defunding the state’s Women’s Commission
  • Alyson (WI) speaks out for low-paid dancers who bring joy to audiences

This list could go on  — Mainstreet Women stand against ‘bullies’ and speak for future generations — the majority of Mainstreet Women have taken steps in quiet and loud ways toward the goal of justice.

inCourage Reflections

“I always wondered why somebody doesn’t do something about that. Then I realized I was somebody.” Lily Tomlin

In honor of Martin Luther King Day, a huge THANK YOU to Mainstreet Women (and Men too), the somebodies who keep our country whole, who struggle and sacrifice daily. Thank you for speaking out and standing up to create a better world.

one step can make all the difference A MLK Day challenge for everyday heroines (& heroes):

Remember times you’ve been most successful at speaking out and standing up, what made that possible?

Has there been something burning in your soul that you haven’t spoken out about recently? What’s one step you could take, starting today?

What would happen if you told one young person each month about how you’ve spoken out and stood up, how you learned to do that, and how you felt regardless of the outcome?

Here’s to more Main Street courage!

My best, Jone

Mainstreet Women Manifesto for Tolerance: More Change We Want to See Happen – Congress

Main Street Question #9: If you had a magic wand and could change one thing in the U.S. immediately , what would you change? (Post 2 of 2.)

#2: MAINSTREET WOMEN CHANGE CONGRESS

Mainstreet Women, you made clear that while you don’t feel you currently have a strong voice, when given the chance you want to be heard as individuals. I promise to honor every one of your inspiring, insightful and hope-filled magic wand responses – you have my commitment that each of your voices will be shared with the world. But as I reported last week, one theme did rise to the top: tolerance.

We’re beginning to share with one another on our US Mainstreet Women Facebook page how WE can begin leading the change we want to see. Penny, CA wrote:  “ I will listen more, speak less, but speak up when I need to,” exemplifying how our ‘tolerance manifesto’ holds the promise for moving us and our nation back to a time when we could talk with one another fearlessly about our differing perspectives and remain friends.

Change starts on Main Street, with us, and also:  Mainstreet Women want Congress to change. “I’d have a bipartisan Congress with the good of the country at heart. That would affect everything. I think we need collaboration and moral courage for what’s best for the country.” (Donna, TX)

“ I’d immediately have Republicans and Democrats work together and use their commonsense to make laws. If they don’t agree, they still must come together to get things done. Our country is very much worse off for this inability to come together. There’s loyalty and then there’s stupidity – we’re much worse off now because our Congress is not working together on behalf of the people.” (Elaine, NE)

POST-ELECTION SIGNS OF CHANGE:  NOT ENOUGH FOR MAINSTREET WOMEN

52 Mainstreet Women interviews were conducted from October to November 6 – U.S. general election day.  ( Brenda, IL talked with me ‘til 8:30 p.m. CST election night!) The election is over and we will see 90 new faces in the 113 th Congress. We’re seeing glimmers of change already as Republicans in Congress have started to rebel against Grover Norquist’s no tax pledge that is holding Congress back from working together for the good of us all; “I care more about this country than I do about a 20-year-old pledge.” (GOP Senator Saxby Chambliss, Georgia)

However, Marybeth’s wand-work is not yet a reality: “I’d remove party politics from our government systems. The party machines have destroyed us, destroyed this country. It would be about people. We’d go back to having public servants not parties that are about money and power, not a place where corporations are people – I’d wipe that out.” ( Marybeth , MI) And, several other Mainstreet Women’s magic is well, a (promising?) work-in-progress:

  • “I’d shift the balance of power in Congress. I’d make Congress 51% women immediately.” ( Kate, MN )
  • “With my magic wand I’ll have more women making decisions for us. Because women have been managing homes forever, we’re experienced! Women will bring a whole different perspective….I think part of the problem is that we have too many men making the decisions.” (Luz, MA)
  • “If we had parity we’d have different policy discussions – it would change everything. The Women’s Caucus is bipartisan. They disagree but still keep the conversation alive. Women can talk politics in a way that is healthy and we’d change the conversation.” ( Marjorie, DC )

Our U.S. Congress will have a record 101 women in 2013:  81 women in our House of Representatives and 20 female Senators. Mainstreet Women’s Kris in New Hampshire is glowing that her state made herstory with the first ever all-female state Congressional delegation; and she helped elect a woman governor too!

MAINSTREET WOMEN:  CAN WE FOCUS OUR POWER?

I loved how three Mainstreet Women took direct power in their magic wand response — no waiting for others to lead:

  • Jennifer, NE used her wand to assume the presidency and immediately moved her husband and 7 children into the White House
  • Kate, FL appointed the Supreme Court
  • Dana, VA made a blockbuster film that redefines success and power; no more Barbie-doll women, no more Terminator masculine ideals

If we don’t really have the magic to compel Congress to change immediately, WHAT CAN WE DO NOW?

I’m still working on me. I’ve committed to shifting my mindset, igniting more conversations that I stick with, and being more tolerant of others.  One thing I did do: I added “Call on Congress” to my fairly smartphone’s address book :  1-888-907-6886.

This automated service from the non-profit, non-partisan Sunlight Foundation ( http://sunlightfoundation.com/ ) helps us learn how our Congressional reps are voting and how they’re raising campaign funds. You can even have an entire Congressional bill read out to you via phone! I just listened to Senate Bill 3351 – Protect Our Health Privacy Act. (Only took 7 total minutes!)

I can’t wait to read more of your Facebook posts on what you’ll do to lead tolerance! All my best, Jone

P.S. Did you know that since our 2013 Election Day the term “Main Street” has been recorded 4 times in the Congressional record? http://www.capitolwords.org/term/Main_Street_/ .   Next post later this week:  How Mainstreet Women define Main Street

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